3 Reasons Why Women Trap Themselves in Bad Love Relationships. - Getting Closer to God's Voice 1

Why women trap themselves in bad relationships? Here’s the answer….

1. Falling in love is a shortcut to get recognition and feel beloved

For many women, falling in love is a shortcut to get recognition and feel beloved at the same time. They feel their “self-value” is assured. Life is full of troubles, frustration and disappointments and love relationships can be a shelter or channel of comfort for many women. 

Japanese women are afraid of being single

One of Japanese’s dating website surveyed single women between 20s to 30

and found more than half of respondents would rather be with any man than being alone in Christmas.

2. She is willing to back to the former life and be alone as she used to.

A woman who trapped herself in a terrible love relationship mainly because she is unwilling to back to the former life she used to be. She is unwilling to be alone as she used to. That’s the cause.

Women who are able to satisfy with single life and enjoy their own lives usually won’t get stuck in a terrible or bad love relationship for too much time.

Because a woman who truly respects herself will not tolerate a man’s improper treatment.

3. Having a boyfriend is the only thing that she has been envied and congratulated in life.

 “ He’s being terrible to you. He never takes you seriously. He even yells at you. Why don’t you break up with him?” I asked. “ Because having a boyfriend is the only thing in my life that I have been envied and congratulated. Aside from this, my life and my daily life have nothing to be proud of or happy about….” I was stunned.

“I have been single for years” would be something which incurs sympathy and “I have a lover” would be something which can easily earn congratulations from the world. Where does the value come from? Who creates the value and make most people adopt this value without any doubts? There must be something wrong with the core value of society. There is no unequivocal answer to the issue.

This problem is: When a woman announces “I am in love with someone” to the world, no matter who is the heroine, dating with someone becomes something which should be celebrated or congratulated.

Thus, for many women, once they end their love relationship, they expect they will return to their original daily lives in which is full of frustration and disappointments. And they lose the light in life. That’s why thousands of thousands of women trap themselves in bad or unsuitable love relationships.

Conclusion: Don’t treat bad love relationship as a bonus to your life. Be with someone who is unworthy of your love, you are wasting your life. That’s called chronic suicide.

 “It’s a very bad thing for a woman to face the worst that can happen to her, because after she’s faced the worst, she can’t even really fear anything again.” Margaret Mitchell, Gone With the Wind

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